The order of the day

The Goldweights

Kwaku & Ama

Saturday, 6 March 2027 · Obuasi

One brass weight for every moment of the day, each with the proverb it stands for. Move the light along the shelf, or let it follow you down.

11:00 AMAt St. Peter's

  1. 10:30 AM30 min

    Arrival of Guests

    Through the main doors. Ushers in gold sashes will seat you; the front six pews are for the two families.

    The chief under the umbrella

    The one who is covered by the umbrella is the one the umbrella was made for.

  2. 11:00 AM10 min

    Bridal Procession

    The St. Peter's Choir

    Ama comes in with her father.

    The horn blower

    The horn does not blow itself. Someone has decided it is time.

  3. 11:10 AM5 min

    Opening Prayer and Welcome

    Rev. Fr. Anthony Owusu-Ansah

    Sankofa

    It is no shame to go back for what you have forgotten.

  4. 11:15 AM5 min

    Hymn · Praise, My Soul, the King of Heaven

    The drummer

    The drum does not sound for one person.

    The words

    Praise, My Soul, the King of Heaven · Henry Francis Lyte, 1834

    1Praise, my soul, the King of heaven;To His feet thy tribute bring.Ransomed, healed, restored, forgiven,Who like thee His praise should sing?Praise Him, praise Him, praise Him, praise Him,Praise the everlasting King.

    2Praise Him for His grace and favourTo our fathers in distress.Praise Him, still the same forever,Slow to chide, and swift to bless.Praise Him, praise Him, praise Him, praise Him,Glorious in His faithfulness.

    3Father-like He tends and spares us;Well our feeble frame He knows.In His hands He gently bears us,Rescues us from all our foes.Praise Him, praise Him, praise Him, praise Him,Widely as His mercy flows.

    4Angels, help us to adore Him;Ye behold Him face to face.Sun and moon, bow down before Him,Dwellers all in time and space.Praise Him, praise Him, praise Him, praise Him,Praise with us the God of grace.

  5. 11:20 AM5 min

    First Reading

    Mrs. Akosua Poku

    Ruth 1:16: where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay.

    The scales

    A word is weighed before it is spoken, and again after.

  6. 11:25 AM8 min

    Song Ministration

    Ms. Adwoa Agyei-Baffour

    The fish

    The fish does not argue with the water.

  7. 11:33 AM18 min

    Homily

    Rev. Fr. Anthony Owusu-Ansah

    Refined by fire: on what the heat is for.

    The stool

    A stool has three legs so that it does not have to think about standing.

  8. 11:51 AM15 min

    Exchange of Vows and Rings

    The two who hold hands

    Two hands wash each other.

  9. 12:06 PM10 min

    Signing of the Register

    The St. Peter's Choir

    The ring

    What is cast in gold is not cast again.

  10. 12:16 PM7 min

    Nuptial Blessing

    Very Rev. Fr. Joseph Boateng

    The elephant

    When the elephant walks ahead, the path is already made.

  11. 12:23 PM5 min

    Hymn · Now Thank We All Our God

    The drummer

    The drum does not sound for one person.

    The words

    Now Thank We All Our God · Martin Rinkart, 1636, translated by Catherine Winkworth, 1856

    1Now thank we all our GodWith heart and hands and voices,Who wondrous things hath done,In whom His world rejoices;Who from our mothers' armsHath blessed us on our wayWith countless gifts of love,And still is ours today.

    2O may this bounteous GodThrough all our life be near us,With ever joyful heartsAnd blessed peace to cheer us;And keep us in His grace,And guide us when perplexed,And free us from all illsIn this world and the next.

    3All praise and thanks to GodThe Father now be given,The Son, and Him who reignsWith them in highest heaven,The one eternal God,Whom earth and heaven adore;For thus it was, is now,And shall be evermore.

  12. 12:28 PM3 min

    Final Blessing and Dismissal

    Very Rev. Fr. Joseph Boateng

    The elephant

    When the elephant walks ahead, the path is already made.

  13. 12:31 PM9 min

    Recession

    The St. Peter's Choir

    The state sword

    The sword is carried out before the chief, not after him.

  14. 12:40 PM60 min

    Photographs in the Grounds

    The order is at the foot of the page.

    The linked frames

    Hold the picture still. It will be the only still thing about the day.

3:00 PMOn the lawn

  1. 3:00 PM20 min

    Guests Seated on the Lawn

    Find your table on the board at the gate.

    The linked frames

    Where you sit is where the family has placed you. Sit well.

  2. 3:20 PM10 min

    Entrance of the Couple

    MC Kwabena Darko

    The chief under the umbrella

    When the chief enters, the talking finishes by itself.

  3. 3:30 PM5 min

    Welcome and Opening Prayer

    Nana Agyei-Baffour, for the families

    Sankofa

    It is no shame to go back for what you have forgotten.

  4. 3:35 PM15 min

    Toasts

    The best man and the maid of honour

    The horn blower

    Speak with the horn, not with the whole lung.

  5. 3:50 PM60 min

    Lunch

    Under the trees. The menu is on your table.

    The pot on three legs

    The pot that feeds the family is never too heavy to lift.

  6. 4:50 PM10 min

    Cutting of the Cake

    Two crocodiles, one stomach

    Two crocodiles share one stomach, and still they fight over the food. Why fight? It all goes to the same belly.

  7. 5:00 PM5 min

    First Dance

    The two who hold hands

    The first dance is the only one anyone remembers, so dance it slowly.

  8. 5:05 PM5 min

    Vote of Thanks

    The couple

    Sankofa

    Look back once, so that you know what you are carrying forward.

  9. 5:10 PM230 min

    The Floor Opens

    Inside, until the lights come up.

    The drummer

    When the drum speaks, the feet answer, whatever the head has decided.

Who leads the way

  • Rev. Fr. Anthony Owusu-Ansah · Celebrant
  • Very Rev. Fr. Joseph Boateng
  • Rev. Fr. Michael Asante
  • Rev. Sr. Mary Agnes Poku
Maid of Honour
Ms. Afua Poku
Bridesmaids
Ms. Akua Boateng
Mrs. Yaa Darko
Ms. Abena Agyei-Baffour
Ms. Serwaa Asante
Best Man
Mr. Kofi Agyei-Baffour
Groomsmen
Mr. Kwabena Darko
Mr. Yaw Poku
Mr. Kwame Boateng
Mr. Osei Asante
Ring Bearer
Master Nana Yaw Poku

Photographs in the grounds

After the recession, on the church steps. Tap a group once it has been called.

Your company is the gift

For those who have asked, tap a number to copy it.

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