A castle of pale golden stone on a green hill above the sea, crimson and gold banners flying from its towers.

The order of the day

The Castle

Caleb & Abigail

Saturday, 10 April 2027 · Winneba

1:00 PM · Grace Methodist Church

The order of service

  1. 12:30 PM

    Arrival of Guests

    The doors are open. Come in out of the sun; the ushers will find you a pew.

  2. 1:00 PM

    Bridal Procession

    The Grace Methodist Choir

    Abigail comes through the west door with her father.

  3. 1:10 PM

    Call to Worship and Opening Prayer

    Very Rev. Ebo Arthur

  4. 1:15 PM

    Hymn · Love Divine, All Loves Excelling

    The words

    Love Divine, All Loves Excelling · Charles Wesley, 1747

    1Love divine, all loves excelling,Joy of heaven, to earth come down;Fix in us Thy humble dwelling;All Thy faithful mercies crown!Jesus, Thou art all compassion,Pure, unbounded love Thou art;Visit us with Thy salvation;Enter every trembling heart.

    2Breathe, O breathe Thy loving SpiritInto every troubled breast!Let us all in Thee inherit,Let us find that second rest.Take away our bent to sinning;Alpha and Omega be;End of faith, as its beginning,Set our hearts at liberty.

    3Finish, then, Thy new creation;Pure and spotless let us be.Let us see Thy great salvationPerfectly restored in Thee;Changed from glory into glory,Till in heaven we take our place,Till we cast our crowns before Thee,Lost in wonder, love, and praise.

  5. 1:20 PM

    Scripture Reading

    Mrs. Efua Essien

    Song of Songs 2:10-13. For, lo, the winter is past; the flowers appear on the earth.

  6. 1:25 PM

    Song Ministration

    Ms. Adjoa Ampiah

  7. 1:33 PM

    Sermon

    Very Rev. Ebo Arthur

    Through the door: on leaving one house and making another.

  8. 1:53 PM

    Exchange of Vows and Rings

  9. 2:08 PM

    Signing of the Register

    The Grace Methodist Choir

  10. 2:18 PM

    The Charge and Blessing of the Couple

    Rt. Rev. Kow Egyir

  11. 2:25 PM

    Hymn · O Perfect Love

    The words

    O Perfect Love · Dorothy Frances Gurney, 1883

    1O perfect Love, all human thought transcending,Lowly we kneel in prayer before Thy throne,That theirs may be the love which knows no ending,Whom Thou forevermore dost join in one.

    2O perfect Life, be Thou their full assuranceOf tender charity and steadfast faith,Of patient hope and quiet, brave endurance,With childlike trust that fears nor pain nor death.

    3Grant them the joy which brightens earthly sorrow;Grant them the peace which calms all earthly strife,And to life's day the glorious unknown morrowThat dawns upon eternal love and life.

  12. 2:30 PM

    Benediction

    Rt. Rev. Kow Egyir

  13. 2:33 PM

    Recession

    The Grace Methodist Choir

    Out through the same door, into the afternoon.

  14. 2:45 PM

    Photographs in the Churchyard

    Under the flame tree. Then the road up the hill.

4:00 PM · The Headland

The evening at the castle

  1. 4:00 PM

    The Gates Open

    Drinks on the lawn, looking out to sea. Find your name at the gate.

  2. 4:30 PM

    Entrance of the Couple

    MC Kobina Ansah

    Under the banners, to the great hall.

  3. 4:45 PM

    Welcome and Grace

    Mr. Kwesi Ampiah, for the families

  4. 4:50 PM

    The Feast

    The menu is below. There is more than enough.

  5. 6:00 PM

    Toasts

    The best man and the maid of honour

    Short, by royal decree.

  6. 6:20 PM

    Cutting of the Cake

  7. 6:30 PM

    First Dance

    As the sun goes down over the water.

  8. 6:35 PM

    Vote of Thanks

    The couple

  9. 6:40 PM

    Dancing

    Until ten, when the lamps on the hill are put out.

In the great hall

The feast

To begin

  • Kelewele with roasted groundnuts
  • Grilled prawns from the bay
  • Light soup with smoked fish

The feast

  • Jollof rice with grilled chicken
  • Banku with grilled tilapia and pepper
  • Fante fante, fresh from the boats
  • Waakye with all that belongs to it
  • Garden egg stew with boiled yam

To finish

  • Wedding cake, three tiers
  • Coconut ice cream
  • Fresh pineapple and mango

To drink

  • Sobolo, chilled
  • Palm wine from Swedru
  • Sparkling wine for the toasts

Where you sit

The tables

Each is named for something on the way here. Your name is at the gate, with your table beside it.

  1. 1The Lamp PostThe couple, their parents and the ministers
  2. 2The Great TreeFamily of the bride
  3. 3The HarbourFamily of the groom
  4. 4The StreamThe bridal party
  5. 5The MeadowGrace Methodist church family
  6. 6The OrchardFriends of the bride
  7. 7The HeadlandFriends of the groom
  8. 8The Hymn BookColleagues, and the back pew

With thanks

The court

Ministers
Very Rev. Ebo Arthur · Officiating
Rt. Rev. Kow Egyir
Rev. Mrs. Aba Quayson
Rev. Kofi Annan-Forson
Maid of Honour
Ms. Esi Ampiah
Bridesmaids
Ms. Ekua Bentsi-Enchill
Mrs. Araba Dadzie
Ms. Maame Yaa Eshun
Ms. Priscilla Ackon
Best Man
Mr. Joshua Essien
Groomsmen
Mr. Kweku Sam
Mr. Ato Hammond
Mr. Nathaniel Otoo
Mr. Ebo Taylor-Mensah
Flower Girls
Little Miss Nana Esi Essien
Little Miss Ewurabena Ampiah

The treasury

Your company is the gift

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